The reason why women lie so much


Ask a woman how she likes men.

Once she responds, ask her what her partner is like.
Spoiler: nothing to do with it.

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Ask one of those fanatics of a political party about their beloved leader's best policy.
Crickets. Cree, cree, cree.

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Ask someone about what he wants. Or… Ask yourself.
You have no damn clue what you want, much less why you want it.

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Or… your needs and desires, your fears and aspirations.

No clue.

Don’t get it yet?

One more.

You propose to do something in particular…

But, a notification, a knee bend to your boss, a new Power Point… whatever, and you'll end up doing the opposite of what you said you’d do.

You need to make yourself the right questions.

You need to take the time to answer them.

You need to get your why fixed.

You need a jodido plan.

You need someone helping you through your journey.

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