When I’m saying that more than you think is determined by biology and, in particular, our stone-aged brains, is no joke. ​ Look. Despite what some political anti-macho politicians may say, like it or not, what attracts you is an undeniable biological reality. ​ In no society, culture, or era—past or present—have vulnerable, weak, or unmotivated men been seen as attractive to women. ​ Despite what social narratives might say about showcasing your sensitivity or crying openly, those traits alone don’t necessarily draw attraction. ​ Women are naturally inclined toward men who demonstrate strength, determination, and social status. ​ It’s biology, not a choice. ​ Just check the couples of some of those women… in past, or the present… Look at them. And compare with the political message that they launch out there. ​ This isn’t about blame. Not about politics. Not about machismo or feminism. ​ Just as men are biologically attracted to certain physical traits in women, these preferences are part of human nature. Social engineering cannot erase it. ​ The same principle applies in business. The same principle applies to your professional career. The same principle applies to how you negotiate or invest. ​ Chasing after clients doesn’t make you successful. Come crying to your boss for a raise because your cat is sick won’t give you a raise… and forget about a promotion. Negotiating showing that you are desperate won’t make that price to go down. ​ Wealth and influence come when you position yourself so others seek you out. Begging for attention—whether in relationships, promotions, negotiations, clients or sales—is a losing game. ​ Success comes when people pursue you, not the other way around. ​ Again, it’s biology. ​ Logically, there is a way to apply this principle properly without looking a gilipollas… but this is for 1 to 1 session with you. If you want to book it, click below. Price will go up after Christmas day… not down. PD 1: If you liked this email, don't keep it in secret and forward it to a friend. They will thank you enormously one day. PD 2: If somebody has sent you this email and you want to receive emails like this yourself, visit vicentevalencia.com PD 3: If you want unsubscribe, click the link below. ​ |
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